
A few tips learned while flying (alone) with young children:
(While its still fresh on my mind... just got home this morning, at 1:30am)
- Pack snacks, some fun & some with protein
- Take EMPTY sippy cups
- Put all metal objects they (and you) would normally wear (jewelry, watches, belts, etc..) in one of the carry ons. Let them put objects on AFTER going through security... Same with jackets.
- Go through security at YOUR pace. You can only do so much. After all, a mom and two children is THREE people... not just one with a lot to do.
- DON'T sit and wait calmly at the gate for your plane to arrive! This is the perfect time to find an empy row (or gate, or spot) and have the children race to see who can do 20 jumping jacks first, run in place, spin, stand on one foot, etc. The other waiting passengers may give you strange looks now, but they will be exceedingly greatful when your children are happily sitting still for the 3+ hours on a plane!
- Bring entertainment: coloring, small quiet toys, a game, soccer ball (for those empty spaces at the gate), homework, game boys, etc...
- Bring favorite sleepy toy (teddy bear) and blanket - those planes get cold & these give extra comfort.... and help with naps! :)
- 15 minutes before bording time is not the time to stand in line. Its time for a bathroom break! Avoiding using the plane bathroom is a good, good thing.
- Unless you can find a family bathroom, go a head and use the handicap stall. Its not worth the risk of something happening to your children because you can't get right to them. Not to mention the speed of having everyone close together taking turns with the toilet. (And, it is perfectly acceptable to keep taking your boy with you in the ladies' room even after he turns 4 or 5 or in my case 6!
- As soon as you get through security, buy the biggest bottle of water you can find and fill up those sippy cups.
- Offer snacks and drinks as plan is taxiing to take off. (Swallowing will help with the ear pressure as you take off & and again while landing.)
- You might want to prepare your children for the differences in people that they will see & hear... so they don't giggle and point it out loudly like mine! "Look! Look at the little adult!" -The man, just a head taller than my six year old was standing directly behind us in line. Keylor wasn't making fun - she was delighted... but still, the incident was embarassing. Thankfully, the gentleman was wonderful and just laughed & talked to the kids!
- Explain, explain, explain. Children do MUCH better (in any circumstance) when they know what to expect and what you expect of them. Be matter of fact, answer questions and keep your cool. Kids look to us and take their emotional cues from us. If you show you are scared or insecure - they will act that way. If you remain calm and smiling - so they will be... mostly. ;)
- Understand that traveling is hard on them. Give grace for yucky behavior, reminding them gently of what you expect, while maintaining consitancy with discipline when needed.
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- Don't forget coffee & entertainment for mom!
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- If child is congested in the least, bring out the sudafed! Take off and landing pressure is miserable (and instant screaming kid recipe) when you already have a stuffy nose!
And last, but not least:
- DO NOT get on the plane as soon as possible. I don't know who came up with the "parents with young children bording first" idea, but I'm guessing it was NOT a parent of young children! Wait until they do final bording for all passengers, then get in the end of the line. You will have plenty of time to find your seats and get settled... and your children have that much less time on the plane to be bored!
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Having flown with babies when they were 8 & 10 months, respectively (only one at a time though) and small children at ages 3,4,5 &6 (two at a time) - I can tell you these things work. We have experienced scary plane rides, major delays in schedule and other things. My kids still love to travel... and even more remarkably: so do I!